While the exuberance of the New Year gently propels us into the beautiful month of February, many a young hearts and probably old ones alike look forward to Valentine’s Day. Candle light dinners, flowers, chocolates, gifts and exchanging love messages… That’s what Valentine’s Day is all about, right? Well, maybe not.

The origin of this day, dedicated to the expression of love, can be traced back to St. Valentine. He was a Roman Priest during the regime of Emperor Claudius II who cruelly persecuted the Church. Under the rule of Claudius, Rome was involved in many bloody campaigns. The Emperor had to maintain a strong army but had difficulty in getting soldiers to join his military leagues. Claudius believed that Roman men were unwilling to join the army because of their strong attachment to their wives and families. He passed a decree that prohibited marriages and engagements in Rome.

Realizing the injustice of the decree, Valentine defied Claudius and continued to secretly perform marriages within the Church for many young lovers. Rooted in Christian faith, he firmly stood by the sacredness of marriage. He was eventually caught, imprisoned and tortured for performing marriage ceremonies against the command of Emperor Claudius. He was executed on February 14, 269 AD. Valentine’s martyrdom did not go unnoticed. He has come to be known as the ‘Patron Saint of Lovers.’

Over the years, legends, traditions and folklore have added to the aura and charm of this feast. Perhaps this Valentine’s day, looking at the example of this great saint, each person should pledge his/her love to their loved ones, promising fidelity to them, and thanking them for their love in return.
“We love because he first loved us.” – 1 John 4:19

Nancy Fernandes