Family life is often messy. So how does that square up with the idea that it is also holy? Is a family only holy to the degree that it can spend time in prayer or in service to others? Or is there something more to it?
Attempting to reinvent the family isn’t a new game. Historians have clay-pot records of all kinds of household arrangements dating back to 4000 B.C. Humans always have thought of a million different ways to do a family. It is true that there are strong social-science arguments to be made for the idea that the traditional family — understood as one man in a lifelong committed relationship to one woman and the children they have together — is the most stable, most satisfying, and most socially beneficial household arrangement. Even so, the notion that this is the ideal family arrangement is ultimately not discovered by humans but revealed to us by God. The Father, himself, instituted the human family in the Garden of Eden when He told Adam and Eve to “go forth and multiply.” Further, he gave us his Son who, by choosing the wedding at Cana for His first miracle, gave marriage and family life sacramental dignity, asserting that this union was a sacred reality capable of conveying sanctifying grace. Read more